“A wise traveler never despises his own country.”

Thanks to Silver Wings, every year I am able to take a small mid-semester weekend getaway to a city or state in the South for our Area/Region Conclave. While this year’s was quite different, as I played a part in the organization, planning and running of the conclave, it was quite eye-opening as well. This year’s conclave was in Auburn, AL and Tuskegee, AL. Although it was my second time in Auburn, it was my first time getting to truly explore the city, and it was my first time visiting Tuskegee. A lot of people might wonder, “What’s even in Auburn or Tuskegee?” So, here I am, ready to backup those cities and shine some light on their significance.

Cool, Auburn is home to Auburn football…but it’s so much more than that. Driving into Auburn you can’t help but to be in awe at the beauty of everything around you. The university buildings are truly remarkable, almost making you question why you didn’t choose that college over your own. Everything is within walking distance – restaurants, shops, bars, classes, etc. Of course, our first stop was Toomer’s Drugs for some of the famous lemonade. Seriously – this stuff is life-changing. And addicting.

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Selfie with Toomer’s lemonade because I had to.

Our next stop was to take those completely cliche and overly popular pictures in front of the university. But, it’s completely necessary. I mean, look at that building. My clock obsession didn’t help either.

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That night we went to Moton Field, in Tuskegee, home to the famous and previously controversial Tuskegee Airmen/Red Tails. I thought I knew about them before, but this museum truly opened my eyes to what they went through and how hard they fought just to be able to fly planes. The short film we watched really gave us insight on their struggles and how people viewed them during that period of time.

The next day was a day of running business sessions, public speaking (which has improved tremendously since my first year of college), minor freak outs, presenting the Prisoner of War/Missing in Action ceremony speech at our banquet, meeting the wonderful AFA President for the state of Alabama, hearing Colonel Eric Wydra speak, and making tons of new friends from Alabama, Tennessee and Mississippi. That night we all went out and experienced the Auburn nightlife, and I realized that I am still not into clubs, but rather enjoy actually hearing the people I’m having conversations with. Below are two wonderful people I met earlier this fall, who have become great friends and just happened to make very long drives and flights from Oregon and Washington to visit their favorite Region President at her ARCON.

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Sweet Josh & Emilie!

I make this post to conclude with many things I’ve recently learned. While I harp to many people on the fact that I have met so many wonderful people from Spain and Taiwan, the United States has beautiful people, too. Without the organization Silver Wings, I more than likely would have never had the chance to meet the amazing people that I have. To me, it’s crazy to think that without it I would have very few true friends, but since I became a part of it, I now have lifelong friends all over the United States – from Alabama, Washington, Oregon, Colorado, Florida, Oklahoma, New York, South Carolina, and so many more. I know that these people would be there for me in a heartbeat if I needed them because of the bonds we’ve created through these passions and dedications we have.

I’ve come to realize that although my heart is begging for me to go to other countries and see the years of history and so many different cultures they have to offer, that these things can be found at home, too. While the U.S. might not date as far back as other countries, we still have history. We still have the Tuskegee Airmen, that are often overlooked because no one remembers that Alabama has something that amazing lying within it. We still have different cultures and lifestyles that are quite obvious when you step out of your backyard and talk to others from a different state.

I say these things to encourage myself to continue opening my mind to what is still here in the United States. After my trip abroad this past summer, things seemed dull here – so common and un-extraordinary. But Auburn and Tuskegee showed me that even I, living in Alabama all my life, have not seen everything it has to offer. I am so ready to see new countries and new cultures that sometimes I forget I haven’t even seen the beauty or history of my own state. And while my wanderlust will never go away, and I will never try to limit where I can go, I realize that need to try and tell myself that things will come when it’s time. I will get my chance to visit India and Germany and South America and everywhere else when the time is right. With the passion I have for visiting new places and meeting new people, I know they will happen, but it will take time. Going abroad isn’t as easy as visiting a state in your own country, and why not do that while you can?

“A wise traveler never despises his own country.” – William Hazlitt

Barcelona, Spain: So Much More Than a Tourist Trap

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I was featured in the University of South Alabama Study Abroad blog! Read the post to find out a little about my experience abroad.

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After her first trip abroad, she returned to her college town with a deep passion for traveling and experiencing new cultures. Six weeks in Spain was everything she’d hoped for and more – from making friends from all over the world, improving her speaking ability in another language, gaining a new family, and more. This week’s featured blogger is Kaley Rector, an International Education Ambassador at the University of South Alabama, who just recently returned from a summer in Spain.

After returning from my study abroad in Spain, I found a quote that couldn’t have been more fitting: “Once you have traveled, the voyage never ends, but is played out over and over again in the quietest chambers. The mind can never break off from the journey.” This quote, by Pat Conroy, explains for me what I can’t put into words. This summer was more than just studyingIMG_7990 abroad, it was about…

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The dreaded, “What should I pack in my carry-on?”

As I sit here planning out what to take on my next trip this coming week, I come to the dreaded question, “What should I pack in my carry-on?” After quite a few recent trips I’ve come to realize I might just be able to answer this really easily, while a lot of people are still out there struggling. So, below are my suggestions of the essentials to pack in your carry-on.

1. Phone charger.

2. Laptop & laptop charger (or iPad/Kindle/Tablet/etc). I’m not sure if there has been any trip I’ve taken where I haven’t needed this with me at some point, including when I’m just bored. This is awesome to have during your long layovers and flights. Be sure to pack it where you can easily remove it for security checkpoints.

3. Reading material. Whether this be an actual book, a magazine, or a Kindle, this is a must-have for me when traveling. If you’re going abroad, a book about the place you’re traveling to is awesome but my favorite is having travel magazines like Lonely Planet.

4. Extra set of clothes. Just in case a flight gets canceled or you’re stuck somewhere longer than expected, bring an extra set of clothes. I always tend to pack a t-shirt and my favorite shirt out of the ones I’m bringing, pants, socks, and underwear.

5. Toiletries (deodorant, toothbrush, toothpaste, medicine, glasses, makeup, etc). While you might not use these, you won’t regret having them if something happens and your flight is really delayed or canceled. Just make sure to have the liquids in Ziploc® bags ready to put in the bins at the security check and remember that they can’t be over 3.4 ounces.

6. Jacket/sweatshirt.

7. Headphones. I add this because I see a lot of people using headphones for the majority of their flights. However, I’ve gotten by a couple times without them because longer flights provide them.

8. Wallet (including license, credit cards, cash, boarding pass, passport, if necessary, etc). Pack these things where you can get to them easily because these will be the most used items in your carry-on.

A couple extra things that I always have are:

  • A notebook & a pencil. As a writer, I always tend to get inspired as I’m up 30,000 miles in the air. I’m also a list-maker, so something to write on is a must.
  • Any homework I have. If you’re in college and taking a trip, homework or tests are still happening as your miss classes. I like to bring anything I can do on paper or on my laptop/iPad to save me from having any heavy books to lug around the airport. (*If you absolutely need your books for a class, you can always take a picture on your phone of the pages you need to have.)
  • Snacks. I usually pack a couple small snacks for the airport and in case I can’t easily or quickly access food once I land. (Don’t forget gum!)

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From my lens

I recently read two photography based posts from The Daily Post and became really inspired to do my own take on them. As stated by Laura Cook, humanitarian and travel photographer, in her recent blog post on visual storytelling, “You can easily take a photograph, but not all photographs tell rich stories.” She provides ten pieces of advice on how to create the best story through your photographs – and I’m choosing to incorporate “Paint a scene with a photograph,” “Break the rules,” “Find the best POV for your story,” and “Frame your stories,” into my own post. In the second blog post I read, by Cheri Rowlands, she took the concept of framing your stories and elaborated on it throughout her entire post. The ideas I’m incorporating from her post will be “Architecture,” “Nature,” and “Windows and mirrors.” While I can admit that I am definitely not a photographer, I love taking pictures. So, here is my take on these ideas.

Painting a scene with a photograph:

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In a beautiful city, in the center of a widely known park, surrounded by families of all kinds spending the afternoon together.

Breaking the rules:

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Breaking the rules because it took me a lot more than one try to get this one. Two sisters dancing flamenco in Spain. The setting for this picture couldn’t have been more perfect.

(*Te quiero = I love you.)

Finding the best POV for your story:

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Which point of view do you choose? Just to inspire a little thinking.

Framing your story:

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Cuenca, Spain.

Framing your story through architecture:

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Framing your story through nature:

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A little abstract, but nonetheless, through the ivy roof.

Framing your story through windows and mirrors:

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A collision of passion, adventure & lessons learned

“She is free in her wildness, she is a wanderess, a drop of free water. She knows nothing of borders and cares nothing for rules or customs. ‘Time’ for her isn’t something to fight against. Her life flows clean, with passion, like fresh water.” – Roman Payne

Putting into words what I felt and learned this summer during my six week study abroad trip in Spain is a really difficult task, but I know it’s necessary. I feel as if I owe a “back in the states” post to my blog audience, fellow study abroaders, family, friends and myself. But, where do I even start? Writing about my lessons learned while somehow infusing my overwhelming sense of passion within is difficult, but then add describing how that passion overflowed into my continuous six week adventure abroad…nearly impossible. But that’s why I’m here.

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“I am not the same…”

Now that I’ve returned from studying abroad in Spain, before anything else, I want to share some quotes that have inspired me this summer. Whether while traveling, writing, adventuring, changing my outlook on things, or growing as a person, these quotes were anchors, holding me to what I firmly believed, words of encouragement, or even just words of comfort during any challenging times or personal struggles. Through each bridge I encountered, each beautiful or even close-minded person I came across, and every adventure-filled step I made, I ended up taking away so much from every one. Below are 15 quotes that I truly found (and still find) meaningful and I hope you can take away something from one or more as well.IMG_9139

1. “I am not the same having seen the moon shine on the other side of the world.” – Mary Anne Radmacher

2. “She is free in her wildness, she is a wanderess, a drop of free water. She knows nothing of borders and cares nothing for rules or customs. ‘Time’ for her isn’t something to fight against. Her life flows clean, with passion, like fresh water.” – Roman Payne

3. “Once you have traveled, the voyage never ends, but is played out over and over again in the quietest chambers. The mind can never break off from the journey.” – Pat Conroy

4. “Travel makes one modest. You see what a tiny place you occupy in the world.” – Scott Cameron

5. “To my mind, the greatest reward and luxury of travel is to be able to experience everyday things as if for the first time, to be in a position in which almost nothing is so familiar it is taken for granted.” – Bill Bryson

6. “One of the great things about travel is that you find out how many good, kind people there are.” – Edith Wharton

7. “Travel is like love, mostly because it’s a heightened state of awareness, in which we are mindful, receptive, undimmed by familiarity and ready to be transformed. That is why the best trips, like the best love affairs, never really end.” – Pico Iyer

8. “The real voyage of discovery consists not in seeking new landscapes but in having new eyes.” – Marcel Proust

9. “Travel is fatal to prejudice, bigotry, and narrow-mindedness, and many of our people need it sorely on these accounts. Broad, wholesome, charitable views of men and things cannot be acquired by vegetating in one little corner of the earth all one’s lifetime.” – Mark Twain

10. “Travel teaches toleration.” – Benjamin Disraeli

11. “Wandering re-establishes the original harmony which once existed between man and the universe.” – Anatole France

12. “We live in a world that is full of beauty, charm and adventure. There is no end to the adventures we can have if only we seek them with our eyes open.” – Jawaharlal Nehru

13. “We travel, initially, to lose ourselves; and we travel, next, to find ourselves. We travel to open our hearts and eyes and learn more about the world than our newspapers will accommodate. We travel to bring what little we can, in our ignorance and knowledge, to those parts of the globe whose riches are differently dispersed. And we travel, in essence, to become young fools again- to slow time down and get taken in, and fall in love once more.” – Pico Iyer

14. “There is a kind of magicness about going far away and then coming back all changed.” – Kate Douglas Wiggin

15. “Once in a while it really hits people that they don’t have to experience the world in the way they have been told to.” – Alan Keightley

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6 weeks, 6 things I missed in the U.S.

As my time abroad comes to an end, I’ve realized that each week here I began to miss different, and sometimes random, things about living in the U.S. or just the U.S. in general. Here’s my story of my top 6 weekly desires and longings while abroad.

Week one. Running through my head that first week (besides shock and the strongest desire to adjust to a new Spanish family as quickly as possible) was a serious longing for English speakers. I missed that daily conversion with people speaking my first language and always knowing exactly what people were saying. It was a little difficult adjusting to the fast pace of Spanish speakers and not knowing some of the vocabulary or slang. It felt like I was like I was running beside a car going 50 mph every single time I tried to speak to someone.

Week two. Home, my bed, etc. At the beginning of this week I woke up throwing up because of something I had eaten the night before and all I wanted was to be somewhere comfortable. At home, in my bed, with an Icee and my cat. It isn’t fun being sick abroad, especially when you don’t have the things you’d normally eat to feel better. However, my host family was so generous and sincere and really took care of me during this time.

Week three. Missing my family is something always on my mind, but becauseIMG_3010 I go to school away from home anyway, that wasn’t my week three of what I missed or longed for. Missing family or friends is rather different than missing animals because they KNOW where you’re going, when you’ll be back, etc. So, week three was me really missing my cat. Before leaving, as those last few weeks in the U.S. came to an end, I was always around her and she was like my shadow, always following me wherever I went. It’s a sad thing, leaving an animal, because they don’t understand the concept of where you’re going or when you’ll be back.

Week four. William and my family. While I was in Spain, having the time of my life, I did find myself thinking that I wished my family and boyfriend were with me. I would see things that reminded me of them, or go somewhere and really wish that they could have been with me. And it would have been wonderful having my love by my side on this amazing adventure, so my family and boyfriend are week four of what I missed back in the U.S.

Week five. For some reason, after a while I was really craving a peanut butter and banana sandwich. Constantly, all day, every day. For about two weeks straight. You think I’d be craving steak…or pizza…but no, peanut butter and banana sandwich. Peanut butter is not typical of Spain either, so I had to just push that craving to the back of my head.

Week six. During this last week, a million thoughts have been rushing through my head. Leaving Spain. Leaving my host family. Leaving my four sweet dogs here. Not getting tapas with bee10525820_10152203326191087_1500987536075568856_nr anymore. Not getting to shop for all of these clothes that are so much more my style. Having to drive everywhere back in the states. The food. The views. My favorite bar here. And so much more. While my mind has been racing, and I’ve almost started crying three times now (yes, I’m keeping track) because I really don’t want to leave, I’ve realized that I already am beginning to miss my life here. Studying abroad in Cuenca has been life-changing and one of the best things that has ever happened to me. It’s hard to express how much my heart has grown with love for other cities, people, animals, life here in general, everything. I already don’t want to leave because I know, now, and understand that returning to the U.S. will be just as much of a culture shock as when I first arrived in Spain.

Today, one of our USA Spanish professors told me to think about a famous quote whenever I got sad about being back in the U.S. -

Don’t cry because it’s over, smile because it happened.

 

And it’s true. What a beautiful way to think about it. What a sweet reminder of the amazing opportunity I was given and worked so hard for.